Perspective is an important thing, which can be difficult to remember when dealing with sports. Especially in these days of endless news cycles, instant gratification, and hot takes delivered in 240 characters or less, perspective is easily forgotten. At best, it’s easily forgotten; at worst, you will be openly mocked for having it. Baseball, of all sports, should have some built-in immunity, with it’s long seasons and unavoidable ebbs and flows, but even this most pastoral of games is infected with the need to assign grand meaning to each and every game. It shouldn’t be that way. Great teams lose three or four times in every ten game stretch. Great hitters make outs 65-70% of the time. Failure is built into the fabric of the game.
I’m writing this partially because I’m a Cubs fan and, even after going 5-2 on their last home stand, everything I read this week is doom and gloom, all because those two loses happened to be the last two games. The five wins preceding that have been completely disregarded. Even the best writers, the ones I leaned on during the truly “dark” seasons of recent past, are timidly asking permission to share some home run videos. This is a team that has gone to three straight league championship series, won the World Series the year before last, and, even though it’s played about as poorly as you could imagine this team playing, is three games above .500 and just won five out of seven games. And people are freaking angry about that. It’s insidious and I can’t stand it.
But the other reason I’m writing this is because I was given a huge dose of perspective this week. I won’t go into many details, and I will let you know up-front that everything is okay now, but I spent all day Wednesday at the hospital with my wife, who is twenty-seven weeks pregnant. There can’t be many things as jarring as the text I got that morning telling me she had to go to labor and delivery. I could think of a few, but I’d prefer to not.
All of the tests came back normal. The crisis was averted. Mother and baby are fine, and it will still be another six or seven weeks before I meet my son.
If you think losing a baseball game is a bad thing, I’m here to tell you that you’re wrong. Baseball is a wonderful distraction. It’s one for which I’m thankful. But, in the big scheme of things, it’s really not important. Remember that the next time your favorite team loses a game, or a series, or is having a crappy season. Remember that the next time you feel the urge say someone sucks, because they struck out, or walked a guy, or dropped a throw. If your team loses, take a minute to think of the good things you have going on in your life. If you don’t feel there is anything good going on in your life, try appreciating the game for the wonderful distraction that it is. Be thankful that it’s there to draw our mind away from the real burdens and injustices of this world. It can do that for you, no matter what the scoreboard says.
Let’s talk about some baseball.
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